To achieve a balanced relationship partner, you need to understand the other person is different from us, have their beliefs, values and different experiences, which makes him and see the world from different angles. It is not an object of our property, we can not expect to change that is the way we want. If you really want must accept the other person as is, with qualities and defects not see the features separately but on the contrary, integrated healthily and accepting in full.
This present the independence of each. There are many opportunities for sharing but also each have activities or moments that are just for oneself where the couple is not involved.